Most vocabulary lists group words by topic (home, food, travel). This one is different — it groups the small, high-frequency words that hold a conversation together, regardless of topic. These words won't show up in a dictionary's "important words" list, but you'll hear them in almost every conversation.

Softening and hedging words

Native speakers rarely state things with total certainty — these words soften a claim, making it sound natural rather than blunt.

probably, maybe, kind of, sort of, I guess, I suppose, apparently, I think, to be honest, actually.

"It's kind of expensive, but I guess it's worth it." / "To be honest, I'm not sure."

Agreeing and disagreeing

exactly, totally, definitely, absolutely, I see what you mean, fair enough, I'm not so sure, not necessarily, I guess so.

"That restaurant is overpriced." — "Fair enough, but the food is really good."

Reacting and showing interest

really?, no way, that's crazy, seriously?, I bet, that makes sense, good point, interesting.

"I just got the job!" — "No way, that's amazing!"

Buying time while speaking

Short filler words give you a moment to think without an awkward silence — used naturally, they make speech sound more fluent, not less.

well, so, anyway, like, you know, I mean, let me think, actually.

"Well, I think... I mean, it depends on the situation."

Connecting ideas in speech

anyway, by the way, speaking of which, on top of that, besides, other than that, apart from that.

"By the way, did you see the message I sent?"

Everyday intensity words

These add emphasis in casual speech, more naturally than "very" in most conversations.

so (so tired), really, super, incredibly, totally, absolutely.

"I'm so tired." / "That's incredibly kind of you."
Common mistake: Overusing "very" in every sentence. Native speakers vary their intensifiers — "really," "so," "incredibly," "totally" — depending on the word being emphasised and how casual the conversation is.

How to practise these

Unlike topic vocabulary, these words are best learned by noticing them in real conversations, shows, or podcasts — because their meaning depends heavily on tone and context. Try picking three from this list each week and deliberately using them in your own conversations.

Where to go next

For topic-based vocabulary (home, work, travel, shopping), see our Common English Words by Situation. For ready-made full sentences using natural conversational language, see Daily-Use English Sentences.

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